Bitches, bitches, bitches!

(Not you, Carma.)

This post is dedicated to all of my "friends" out there who don't know how to honor their word. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!! I am so sick and fucking tired of someone saying that they will do something and then backing out at the last minute, or worse, ignore me when I try to ask about it.

No, I am not trying to "Huckleberry Finn" anyone, and I resent that insinuation. I guess I just don't understand why I am the first one for these people in question to call when they need help with something, and I almost always help them. So, why can't they return the favor. Crimeny, it's not like I am asking for their firstborn! It would be one thing if you had a legitimate excuse, like an injury or pregnancy...but saying that you are tired from sitting on a couch all day! Give me a break, people. Get off you fat lazy ass and do something! Oh, and don't EVER ask me for anything again and expect me not to bring this up!

Now, before you go passing judgements wondering how I can say this while I stepped out of another friends wedding. I talked to her about my decision and the reasons why I made that decision. She may never talk to me again, but I am willing to deal with that. At least I had the decency to answer the phone when she called, and I had legitimate reasons as to why I decided not to be in the wedding.

I guess that I am just bummed about the quality of friendships anymore. I remember older people telling me that it is rare to still be friends with the same people that you were friends in high school once you have gotten older and started you lives. I never believed that. I refused to. Well, unfortunately, it's true, and I'm here to tell ya, it's depressing and it sucks!

(Once again, I must say: not you, Carma.)