Sunday, July 12, 2009

The 3rd Shift Crazies!

I have not blogged once all summer!! I have been so busy that my blog has been the furthest thing from my mind. In fact, I had pretty well forgotten I had a blog until someone reminded me about it last night...

I have always said that the crazies got to Wal-Mart late at night and I tend to avoid the place altogether from the hours of 10PM to 8AM. Last night though I went with my sister to pick up an answering machine and a dog bed. We walked in and my sister saw someone she knew so she started talking to her. I waited patiently by our cart and noticed a girl that I used to know walk in. It's no secret that this girl and I had a bit of a falling out that didn't even involve either one of us but more her husband and my boyfriend. (Actually, just to clarify some stuff in case she is reading this, it was because of some pretty snarky stuff her husband did to my BF.) I ignored her. I have nothing to say to this girl. She showed her true colors back maybe a year or so ago so I washed my hands with the whole thing and she is nothing to me.

Kristin went about our business when all of a sudden this girl comes up to us and starts screaming at me in the middle of Wal-Mart about me making fun of her Autistic kid on my blog. At first I had no idea what she was talking about. Then I remembered...after all the shit went down between her hubby and my BF I did what I tend to do when something is bothering me, I blogged about it. And I let it all hang out.

I am not going to go into all of it now because the way she handled everything last night just makes me sick to my stomach. I talked to her like a civilized person until she started raising her voice and attracting quite a bit of attention and accusing me of something that I didn't do. So I just wanted to get on here and clear some things up for my own sanity because I can't seem to get it off my mind.

I did make some comments about her kids on my blog. I DID NOT make fun of any of them. Everything I said was true. What I DID DO was call her a BAD PARENT. I NEVER said I was better than her or any one else. I was venting. Maybe it was the wrong way to go about things, I can accept that, but I will not apologize and I will not take down any post I have ever written. I still maintain that she is a bad parent, and a bad person. Just by the way she handled things last night. I can accept the fact that something I did or said or wrote upset her and she felt the need to confront me about it. But why the hell wait a year and then make a scene in a grocery store? Seriously! And with your daughter standing right there. Way to be a upstanding parent!!

The thing that gets me is that she said that I was lucky I didn't use her kids' names in my blog because I would have been arrested. Okay. What a psychopath!!! And, for the record, I am not a kid person. Even when we were friendly I didn't know her kids' names because I didn't give a flying fuck!!! I still don't!!

ARGH!!! So here I am, taking to the blog once again to vent out my frustrations...which I have not had since I lost my job. And I am sure I am not handling this right, but trust me, there is a hell of a lot more I could say, and that I would love to say, but I am not going to bring myself down to that level.

I guess I am glad that I did get a chance to know this girl and her husband. I am not calling myself better than them in any way because Jake and I are on a completely different level than what they are with them being parents and us not. BUT, if we do ever have kids at least they have taught me what it is to be a bad parent and I know I will not follow their example. Then I will be better than them. And should I have a child born with any kind of handicap, they will never play in their shit because I will not ignore them.

So, just a reminder...stay away from Wal-Mart during the 3rd shift hours. Not only are the people who work there often times a little different, but even some of the customers are psycho bitches!!!